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For Loved Ones · Suicide

After a suicide attempt — what to say, and what not to

AFSP and Lifeline's guidance for families and friends in the days and weeks following an attempt.

American Foundation for Suicide Prevention7 min read

AFSP's after-an-attempt resources are written for both the person who attempted and the people around them. The guidance is direct: avoid interrogation, avoid silence, name what happened, ask about the practical (means, sleep, follow-up appointments) before the existential.

Includes the lethal-means counseling concept that has the strongest evidence of any single household-level intervention.

Open at American Foundation for Suicide Prevention

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